Wilder Gutterson
Counselling & Psychotherapy
for Individuals and Couples
Counselling
Welcome
I’m an experienced therapist with a warm, straightforward style. I work with both individuals and couples who want to feel calmer, more connected, and more in control of their lives.
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About Therapy
Many individuals arrive feeling anxious, low, or repeating painful patterns that no longer serve them. Some are burdened by past trauma, others are looking for ways to cope better with the challenges of everyday life. Together, we look beneath the surface, building self-esteem and finding steadier, more compassionate ways to reach your therapy goals.
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For couples, it might be distance, poor communication or shattered trust that’s creating tension. I help you slow things down, really hear what is behind the words, and start to repair what’s gone wrong — whether that’s rebuilding after an affair, or finding your way back to closeness.
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What happens
In our first session we’ll explore what brings you here and what you hope to gain. Together, we’ll look at what’s happening in your life and how past experiences may be shaping your present.
For couples, I provide a structured, supportive space where both voices are heard. I'm active in the room — offering reflections, guidance and communication tools to help you rebuild connection and trust.
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For everyone I work with, I bring warmth and curiosity. Therapy isn’t just about insight — it’s about change. Together, we’ll uncover new perspectives and practical ways to create the life and relationships you want.
I​​​f you'd like an informal chat or to arrange an initial session, you're welcome to get in touch at: wilder@wildergtherapy.com or 07986 467 414
How it Works
What we do
Just talking and being understood can be transformational. We may explore family history, and do exercises to help you work through trauma, depression or anxiety. Couples may have communication exercises they can practice at home.
Solution focused
Individuals set the time and pace for their own growth and change. Couples often reconnect and move forward, while others may decide to move apart in a non-blameful, less angry frame of mind.
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My clients
I am non-prescriptive and work with each client on their own terms. Whether you are single, newly together, or in a long-term relationship, my approach is non-judgement as I respond to your specific needs and wishes. I work as a facilitator and guide to help you discover your own solutions. You will find me a compassionate, active listener, and if asked, can offer my own ideas and thoughts. I also work with some clients as an Executive Coach.
Ways to work
I am trained in a number of different modalities (Gestalt, Parts work, Mentalisation Based Therapy). So clients can use the therapy space in creative and unexpected ways – to rehearse conversations; to resolve conflicts with family members, even those who may no longer be available; perhaps engaging in dialogue with a self-critical voice, or other aspect of themselves.
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Schedule a Session
Please get in touch to see how I might help.
I usually recommend an introductory session to begin.
Fees are £80 for individuals, or £100 for couples.
Wilder Gutterson
07986 467 414
(On-line or rooms in Kentish Town & Highgate)
About me
I am a dual American/British national and began my career as an actor and director in New York, so I understand the artist’s perspective. I moved to the UK in the late 90’s and have an MA in Organisational Psychology from the Tavistock and Portman, and I trained and qualified with Relate as a relationship counsellor.
An experienced counsellor, I work with both individuals and couples. My client profile is wide-ranging, includes all adult ages, straight and LGBT, and an even mix of men and women. Some people come for just a few sessions and move on, others stay on for multiple years.
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I also do executive coaching and work with corporate groups and family businesses struggling to balance personal and professional matters.
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I am a former Trustee of: The Albert Kennedy Trust, Theatre-Rites, and The Royal College of Art SU.